_Signs a Girl is Attracted to Asian Men
_Signs a Girl is Attracted to Asian Men
Japanese Guys
I receive a large number of emails from my fans seeking interracial dating advice for Asian men and also the #1 question that gets asked is, “How will i know if she (usually a white girl, but not always) is interested in dating Asian men?”
Japanese Guys
As the Asian Dating Coach, however, I’m finally answering the question since its been asked so often ad naseum. I’m finally going to put it to bed for that first and before despite my misgivings.
I used to be recently reminded of the controversial topic (and I’ll cover the key reason why it’s so controversial extensively at the bottom) on one of my many flights training men in the art of attraction after i sat next to a really pretty, blonde and bubbly California surfer sort of girl.
In our conversation, she made most of the verbal indicators of curiosity that I’ve heard in the past and that I’ve come to recognize as flirtatious signals from a woman when she’s attracted specifically to Asian men (and therefore to the likes people and I).
This is admittedly a rarer kind of reverse Yellow Fever fraught with it’s own dangers and one in which I’ll go more into detail during my next article about single, white females who intentionally exploit Asian men.
So here is a list of a number of the things these girls will consciously do in order to let me know they want a samurai in shining armor (although I use the term white female, the reality is other women from African American to Latin American, will also use the same flirting signals):
10 Signs a Girl is Attracted to Asian Men
1. She “Knows” an Asian language:
Asian tattoos are a fantastic conversation starter with women!
Maybe you’ve seen this sort - they put Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, etc. under “languages you know” on Facebook (or put on an Chinese/Asian tramp stamp) while they really only know how to obtain pho.
Should you encounter these loquacious ladies, gentlemen, I propose an awesome sexual bantering tip because each woman wants to be cultured. You, as a cosmopolitan man around the globe, are going to teach her an expression in your language. Here’s an illustration for you Chinese speakers.
First, act very serious and say something like, “Let me teach you something. You’ll find this beneficial in the far reaches in my country. Say this: Wo xi huan gou pa shi.”
Make her repeat it. Then she’ll ask “What did I say?”
And you’ll say (within the most PLAYFUL tone and smile you can handle) “You just said ‘I like it doggy-style!’” But then go from playful to romantic. After she laughs off her embarrassment, use your phrases to compliment her.
Teach her “Wo hao xi huan ni de xiao” and, after she repeats it, she’ll ask again. You’ll say, “It means ‘I enjoy your laugh.’”
And she’ll laugh again. Continue but turn it from playful to romantic. “You have beautiful eyes,” or “Your smile is amazing,” are flirtatious phrases shrouded in the learning experience.
Girls who have had the pleasure of the situation tell me it’s unique and something they’ve never forgotten. Make sure to utilize it if you know your mother tongue!
2. She Has Asian Friends:
Larissa Riquelme shot to fame when she announced on the World Cup that they wanted a Korean boyfriend
Her best friend is Chinese. Her college roommate was Korean. She lived next door to a Vietanemse family. Even when they don’t have these experiences they’ll say they've got some sort of Asian acceptance to make her seem more receptive. They’ll utilize the most random things too; a really random story I’ve heard is when one girl’s delivery room doctor was obviously a Japanese guy, so since she was “born into the arms of an Asian man” she should “die within the arms of an Asian man as well.” The point is, they are wanting to form some sort of connection. [EXAMPLE: Paraguayan model Larissa Riquelme was unveiled in the idea of dating Asian men by a Korean acquaintance]
3. She Loves (Mixed) Fighting styles: I’ve never benefitted from this personally but one of my clients is a former North American martial arts champ and he’s currently a pretty famous action director and actor. He’s written to me on several occasions about the sexy crazy groupies that follow him and the individuals his circuit - a plentiful selection of physically fit and attractive women are constantly at his discretion. Probably the most beautiful Asian men groupies keep to the martial arts circuit, the martial Arts circuit, and similar sports-oriented social circles. If she mentions Nam Pham, Cung Le or Manny Pacquiao…ding ding ding! You have a winner!
4. She Loves Asian Food: Be it sushi, Korean BBQ or Pho, she actually is an Asian food “connoisseur.” If the comes up, use visual imagery to color a picture in her mind that appeals to all five senses. The sweet taste of jasmine rice, the aroma of your steaming bowl of pho, the appealing colors of nigiri sushi, the crackling sound of cooking your own Korean BBQ, and the cold, soft texture of delicious sashimi are stimulating as well as arousing topics. Why, i hear you ask? Because speaking of food similar to this is sensual…just like sex. How you can a man’s heart is via his stomach, right? It applies to beautiful women too.
5. She Knows More About Your Mother Country Than You need to do: Even if she has no concrete plans, she’ll express her really wants to go there. With the Japanese tsunami, she’ll express sympathy - do not take on this as generalizing, she’s just attempting to reach out to you. Play in to these fantasies when you can. Paint a photo about going on a vacation together. Focus on romantic depictions of you doing things together, then progress to sensual and end up having sexual. We have to open that door first through verbal imagery progression. Surfing to walking in conjunction sipping on margaritas and coconuts then you’re rolling around in the sand kissing. Use her want to your advantage.
6. She’s a Gamer or Anime-Lover:
They express fascination with anime (Sailor Moon, Akira, Pokemon, etc) and gaming (Final Fantasy and the like). This group of women aren’t really my bag, but whatever floats your boat. If she likes them, fair game, that’s up to her. If she’s talking about how Akira’s going to be whitewashed then she’s attempting to relate to you. The latter kind of woman desires to impress you together with her knowledge of the “Asian male plight.” She’s seeking you to a point in which you say something towards the effect of “That is so amazing how much you realize!” Watch for that and indulge her
7. She Loves Asian Music: Kpop, Jrock, dramas and flicks - this kind of girl is infatuated using the Hollywood of the East. They’re probably younger and much more attractive, as this is a relatively new phenomenon, but because there’s no representation of SE Asians then she may well not go for you if you’re, say, Cambodian or Viet. Or Thai. Or Filipino. And even Chinese for that matter. I’m not implying it won’t happen, however i can’t ever think of a time I had been successful with this sort of girl despite my PUA mastery. I just don’t look East Asian, girly, emo enough. Sometimes, she just simply will not have anything only a BIG BANG boyfriend (put simply, a Korean or Japanese guy).
8. She’ll Compliment Your Asian Attributes: Be it your eyes, Asian hair, or complexion, she’s going to love them and allow you to know it at some point in the conversation. Take her up on it when she does by putting your forearm as much as hers, or if you feel more comfortable or if the conversation goes well, take her hand to say the contrasting tones. Intangible such things as intelligence, family, work ethic, second language are not uncommon topics either. Women learn through encouragement while men learn through challenge (should you tell a girl she looks sexy because dress, she’ll probably wear it again). Just as we had been little boys, perform melt under the praise of your beautiful woman. When she praises my accomplishments for example education or that knowledge of a second language, she’s trying to help me learn.
9. She Loves Happa Interracial Babies:
They’ll typically create a comment on how interracial babies are beautiful. You can bring this up as well. “Just think…if you and get married and we had a litter of the very most beautiful interracial babies…can you imagine how gorgeous they would be?” It plays into her fantasy. Just like we men have sexual fantasies, for women who live “family fantasies.” They’ll deny it and push it of their minds to stay emotionally detached, but remember that, by the end of this or any conversation you have with a female thinking about you, she’s already imagined your future life and family…just as you’ve imagined sleeping along with her.
10. She has “Asian-Dating Experience”: Here is the biggest, most obvious indicator a girl can give you that she’s into Asian men generally and you in specific. Believe me, anytime a girl has ever informed me she had an Asian boyfriend before, I can pretty much romantically interact with her 99.9999% of times. So a white girl like that will say that she has dated an Asian man before. She's going to make this point and even further - she's going to try to guess your ethnicity to demonstrate that she’s “learned in the means of Asian men” and can prove that “not every body look the same.” She’ll say she’s dated a guy of my ethnicity to produce her seem more appealing and receptive if you ask me. So if she’s busting out this big gun, then it’s your responsibility to close because as signals go, it doesn’t get any bigger than this one.
While having, saying, or doing one of the aforementioned things doesn’t automatically make a girl attracted to Asian men. But combine some of those traits or even all of them together and, gentlemen, you merely might find yourself talking to one woman that is madly in love with the Asian persuasion.
Remember fondly the #1 Rule: When you do meet that beautiful girl, always leave the girl better than you found her!
SO WHY WAIT UNTIL NOW To reply to THIS QUESTION?
I mentioned previously which i was always hesitant to answer this question. It seems like a simple, straightforward question “What signals do white women give saying she’s approachable and receptive to Asian men?”
So just why haven’t I answered it so far? Unfortunately, the act of thinking means your More unlikely TO SUCCEED with non-Asian women.
It’s a paradox. The truth is, I’ve always known the technical answer but I’ve for ages been hesitant to answer because, over a holistic level, it’s NOT empowering to Asian men overall to actually know the response to that question. I really believe that the thousands of men that message me with this question are displaying what is known as “learned helplessness.”
Basically, the men to whom the reply to the question “How may i tell if she’s attracted to Asian men (and so me)?” is important, are training themselves to only make a move on a non-Asian women that distinctly signal more forward dating behavior first, ahead of the man does. Quite simply, he wants a zero-risk, in the bag, sure-thing, 100% guarantee or your money back proposition.
Plus today’s modern world with modern women, the last thing dating is, is risk-free.
Meaning instead of being a confident, masculine Asian man willing to take risks (who would then naturally attract these women whether white, black or Latina) and playing the Asian Card to get the beautiful woman, he instead becomes the Asian beta male that is only confident if it's instead the woman who takes the initial risk. Instead of the proper way around which is the man’s role being dominant, forward, along with a leader.
I hope, however, I'm not doing a disservice to Asian men by training to check, and ONLY look, for these specific female signals of attraction first before making a move… Instead of making a move first and then making her interested in you which she then provides you with signals. That’s the right way.
Laugh the right path into her heart (after which her pants)!
As you can tell, I am a very average looking man. I am a short 5 foot 5 inches and I know I am not an excellent looking or handsome guy. Every woman I’ve dated is physically (or even socially) out of my league. I never get those type of indicators of interest or signals of attraction. You must never expect them because I certainly don’t and my success most abundant in beautiful women may be documented and faithfully captured from the media around the world.
Instead, begin using these signals and indicators of curiosity to your “Asianness” that she’s becoming attracted to you AFTER you’ve approached her and reached know her. You need to take these 10 Signals She’s Attracted to Asian Men as signs that you should STAY when you’re already in the conversation with her rather than viewing them as indicators so that you can initially approach her.
Over time, what I’ve discovered with girls that specifically that they like Asian men are in a choice of it for relationship material or sugar daddies. They’ll love to be there but be mindful because you’ll get restricted quickly with a girl that chose you, not really a girl YOU chose, that is a gross difference.
And after answering this time tested question, in my next controversial interracial Asian Male White Female dating article, I’m going to address the 13 Kinds of Women Who Exploit Asian Men! Yes indeed, you will find women who will use the above signals because she’s only interested in your “Asianness”, but not for the reasons that you might think.
When you haven’t had the chance to become familiar with yourself and know women, then I’d save these girls for later - in the end, you’re here to learn pick up, and quitting the game early isn’t fair to yourself and to the many women you've got yet to meet.
Japanese Guys
I receive a large number of emails from my fans seeking interracial dating advice for Asian men and also the #1 question that gets asked is, “How will i know if she (usually a white girl, but not always) is interested in dating Asian men?”
Japanese Guys
As the Asian Dating Coach, however, I’m finally answering the question since its been asked so often ad naseum. I’m finally going to put it to bed for that first and before despite my misgivings.
I used to be recently reminded of the controversial topic (and I’ll cover the key reason why it’s so controversial extensively at the bottom) on one of my many flights training men in the art of attraction after i sat next to a really pretty, blonde and bubbly California surfer sort of girl.
In our conversation, she made most of the verbal indicators of curiosity that I’ve heard in the past and that I’ve come to recognize as flirtatious signals from a woman when she’s attracted specifically to Asian men (and therefore to the likes people and I).
This is admittedly a rarer kind of reverse Yellow Fever fraught with it’s own dangers and one in which I’ll go more into detail during my next article about single, white females who intentionally exploit Asian men.
So here is a list of a number of the things these girls will consciously do in order to let me know they want a samurai in shining armor (although I use the term white female, the reality is other women from African American to Latin American, will also use the same flirting signals):
10 Signs a Girl is Attracted to Asian Men
1. She “Knows” an Asian language:
Asian tattoos are a fantastic conversation starter with women!
Maybe you’ve seen this sort - they put Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, etc. under “languages you know” on Facebook (or put on an Chinese/Asian tramp stamp) while they really only know how to obtain pho.
Should you encounter these loquacious ladies, gentlemen, I propose an awesome sexual bantering tip because each woman wants to be cultured. You, as a cosmopolitan man around the globe, are going to teach her an expression in your language. Here’s an illustration for you Chinese speakers.
First, act very serious and say something like, “Let me teach you something. You’ll find this beneficial in the far reaches in my country. Say this: Wo xi huan gou pa shi.”
Make her repeat it. Then she’ll ask “What did I say?”
And you’ll say (within the most PLAYFUL tone and smile you can handle) “You just said ‘I like it doggy-style!’” But then go from playful to romantic. After she laughs off her embarrassment, use your phrases to compliment her.
Teach her “Wo hao xi huan ni de xiao” and, after she repeats it, she’ll ask again. You’ll say, “It means ‘I enjoy your laugh.’”
And she’ll laugh again. Continue but turn it from playful to romantic. “You have beautiful eyes,” or “Your smile is amazing,” are flirtatious phrases shrouded in the learning experience.
Girls who have had the pleasure of the situation tell me it’s unique and something they’ve never forgotten. Make sure to utilize it if you know your mother tongue!
2. She Has Asian Friends:
Larissa Riquelme shot to fame when she announced on the World Cup that they wanted a Korean boyfriend
Her best friend is Chinese. Her college roommate was Korean. She lived next door to a Vietanemse family. Even when they don’t have these experiences they’ll say they've got some sort of Asian acceptance to make her seem more receptive. They’ll utilize the most random things too; a really random story I’ve heard is when one girl’s delivery room doctor was obviously a Japanese guy, so since she was “born into the arms of an Asian man” she should “die within the arms of an Asian man as well.” The point is, they are wanting to form some sort of connection. [EXAMPLE: Paraguayan model Larissa Riquelme was unveiled in the idea of dating Asian men by a Korean acquaintance]
3. She Loves (Mixed) Fighting styles: I’ve never benefitted from this personally but one of my clients is a former North American martial arts champ and he’s currently a pretty famous action director and actor. He’s written to me on several occasions about the sexy crazy groupies that follow him and the individuals his circuit - a plentiful selection of physically fit and attractive women are constantly at his discretion. Probably the most beautiful Asian men groupies keep to the martial arts circuit, the martial Arts circuit, and similar sports-oriented social circles. If she mentions Nam Pham, Cung Le or Manny Pacquiao…ding ding ding! You have a winner!
4. She Loves Asian Food: Be it sushi, Korean BBQ or Pho, she actually is an Asian food “connoisseur.” If the comes up, use visual imagery to color a picture in her mind that appeals to all five senses. The sweet taste of jasmine rice, the aroma of your steaming bowl of pho, the appealing colors of nigiri sushi, the crackling sound of cooking your own Korean BBQ, and the cold, soft texture of delicious sashimi are stimulating as well as arousing topics. Why, i hear you ask? Because speaking of food similar to this is sensual…just like sex. How you can a man’s heart is via his stomach, right? It applies to beautiful women too.
5. She Knows More About Your Mother Country Than You need to do: Even if she has no concrete plans, she’ll express her really wants to go there. With the Japanese tsunami, she’ll express sympathy - do not take on this as generalizing, she’s just attempting to reach out to you. Play in to these fantasies when you can. Paint a photo about going on a vacation together. Focus on romantic depictions of you doing things together, then progress to sensual and end up having sexual. We have to open that door first through verbal imagery progression. Surfing to walking in conjunction sipping on margaritas and coconuts then you’re rolling around in the sand kissing. Use her want to your advantage.
6. She’s a Gamer or Anime-Lover:
They express fascination with anime (Sailor Moon, Akira, Pokemon, etc) and gaming (Final Fantasy and the like). This group of women aren’t really my bag, but whatever floats your boat. If she likes them, fair game, that’s up to her. If she’s talking about how Akira’s going to be whitewashed then she’s attempting to relate to you. The latter kind of woman desires to impress you together with her knowledge of the “Asian male plight.” She’s seeking you to a point in which you say something towards the effect of “That is so amazing how much you realize!” Watch for that and indulge her
7. She Loves Asian Music: Kpop, Jrock, dramas and flicks - this kind of girl is infatuated using the Hollywood of the East. They’re probably younger and much more attractive, as this is a relatively new phenomenon, but because there’s no representation of SE Asians then she may well not go for you if you’re, say, Cambodian or Viet. Or Thai. Or Filipino. And even Chinese for that matter. I’m not implying it won’t happen, however i can’t ever think of a time I had been successful with this sort of girl despite my PUA mastery. I just don’t look East Asian, girly, emo enough. Sometimes, she just simply will not have anything only a BIG BANG boyfriend (put simply, a Korean or Japanese guy).
8. She’ll Compliment Your Asian Attributes: Be it your eyes, Asian hair, or complexion, she’s going to love them and allow you to know it at some point in the conversation. Take her up on it when she does by putting your forearm as much as hers, or if you feel more comfortable or if the conversation goes well, take her hand to say the contrasting tones. Intangible such things as intelligence, family, work ethic, second language are not uncommon topics either. Women learn through encouragement while men learn through challenge (should you tell a girl she looks sexy because dress, she’ll probably wear it again). Just as we had been little boys, perform melt under the praise of your beautiful woman. When she praises my accomplishments for example education or that knowledge of a second language, she’s trying to help me learn.
9. She Loves Happa Interracial Babies:
They’ll typically create a comment on how interracial babies are beautiful. You can bring this up as well. “Just think…if you and get married and we had a litter of the very most beautiful interracial babies…can you imagine how gorgeous they would be?” It plays into her fantasy. Just like we men have sexual fantasies, for women who live “family fantasies.” They’ll deny it and push it of their minds to stay emotionally detached, but remember that, by the end of this or any conversation you have with a female thinking about you, she’s already imagined your future life and family…just as you’ve imagined sleeping along with her.
10. She has “Asian-Dating Experience”: Here is the biggest, most obvious indicator a girl can give you that she’s into Asian men generally and you in specific. Believe me, anytime a girl has ever informed me she had an Asian boyfriend before, I can pretty much romantically interact with her 99.9999% of times. So a white girl like that will say that she has dated an Asian man before. She's going to make this point and even further - she's going to try to guess your ethnicity to demonstrate that she’s “learned in the means of Asian men” and can prove that “not every body look the same.” She’ll say she’s dated a guy of my ethnicity to produce her seem more appealing and receptive if you ask me. So if she’s busting out this big gun, then it’s your responsibility to close because as signals go, it doesn’t get any bigger than this one.
While having, saying, or doing one of the aforementioned things doesn’t automatically make a girl attracted to Asian men. But combine some of those traits or even all of them together and, gentlemen, you merely might find yourself talking to one woman that is madly in love with the Asian persuasion.
Remember fondly the #1 Rule: When you do meet that beautiful girl, always leave the girl better than you found her!
SO WHY WAIT UNTIL NOW To reply to THIS QUESTION?
I mentioned previously which i was always hesitant to answer this question. It seems like a simple, straightforward question “What signals do white women give saying she’s approachable and receptive to Asian men?”
So just why haven’t I answered it so far? Unfortunately, the act of thinking means your More unlikely TO SUCCEED with non-Asian women.
It’s a paradox. The truth is, I’ve always known the technical answer but I’ve for ages been hesitant to answer because, over a holistic level, it’s NOT empowering to Asian men overall to actually know the response to that question. I really believe that the thousands of men that message me with this question are displaying what is known as “learned helplessness.”
Basically, the men to whom the reply to the question “How may i tell if she’s attracted to Asian men (and so me)?” is important, are training themselves to only make a move on a non-Asian women that distinctly signal more forward dating behavior first, ahead of the man does. Quite simply, he wants a zero-risk, in the bag, sure-thing, 100% guarantee or your money back proposition.
Plus today’s modern world with modern women, the last thing dating is, is risk-free.
Meaning instead of being a confident, masculine Asian man willing to take risks (who would then naturally attract these women whether white, black or Latina) and playing the Asian Card to get the beautiful woman, he instead becomes the Asian beta male that is only confident if it's instead the woman who takes the initial risk. Instead of the proper way around which is the man’s role being dominant, forward, along with a leader.
I hope, however, I'm not doing a disservice to Asian men by training to check, and ONLY look, for these specific female signals of attraction first before making a move… Instead of making a move first and then making her interested in you which she then provides you with signals. That’s the right way.
Laugh the right path into her heart (after which her pants)!
As you can tell, I am a very average looking man. I am a short 5 foot 5 inches and I know I am not an excellent looking or handsome guy. Every woman I’ve dated is physically (or even socially) out of my league. I never get those type of indicators of interest or signals of attraction. You must never expect them because I certainly don’t and my success most abundant in beautiful women may be documented and faithfully captured from the media around the world.
Instead, begin using these signals and indicators of curiosity to your “Asianness” that she’s becoming attracted to you AFTER you’ve approached her and reached know her. You need to take these 10 Signals She’s Attracted to Asian Men as signs that you should STAY when you’re already in the conversation with her rather than viewing them as indicators so that you can initially approach her.
Over time, what I’ve discovered with girls that specifically that they like Asian men are in a choice of it for relationship material or sugar daddies. They’ll love to be there but be mindful because you’ll get restricted quickly with a girl that chose you, not really a girl YOU chose, that is a gross difference.
And after answering this time tested question, in my next controversial interracial Asian Male White Female dating article, I’m going to address the 13 Kinds of Women Who Exploit Asian Men! Yes indeed, you will find women who will use the above signals because she’s only interested in your “Asianness”, but not for the reasons that you might think.
When you haven’t had the chance to become familiar with yourself and know women, then I’d save these girls for later - in the end, you’re here to learn pick up, and quitting the game early isn’t fair to yourself and to the many women you've got yet to meet.